Ideal is a fantasy. Just enough of the right things and never too much of the wrong things assumes control of the ingredients and their mixture in all aspects of life and being. Ridiculous. Compensation, adjustment, alteration, growth and maturity provide the necessary additions and subtractions enabling our ability to fit properly in the roles required of us through the years of experience, realization, enlightenment and recognition. Producing the best fit we are capable of making in the life that is ours to live, anyway, nevertheless, even so.