When we get out of our way, there we are! Getting in our way is having a will and desires that we are imposing on how things are at the expense of how things need to be.

How things need to be flows from considerations beyond the scope of our wants and wishes, and we are being asked to change our mind about what is important.

And, Oh, how we hate to change our mind about what is important! Eh?

That is tantamount to growing up some more again. We always have to grow up against our will. Which is why there are so many immature, whiny, cry baby adults scattered throughout our life, not to mention our own tendencies in that direction, eh?